Some people are simply unkind. They have a sharp tone, cutting remarks, or cold silence. You've tried being nice, and it hasn't mattered. You dread the day because you know someone will be cruel.
Kind, but not a doormat
Jesus calls us to love, not to be mistreated. You can be polite and still leave when things turn ugly. Love doesn't require you to stay in a room where you're being torn down.
Pray and prepare
Pray for this person, even if all you can manage is one sentence. Decide ahead of time how long you'll stay and what you'll do if it escalates. Kindness and boundaries can go together.
"If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all." (Romans 12:18, ESV)
Notice the words "so far as it depends on you." Peace takes two people, and you are only responsible for your half.
If the mistreatment has crossed into abuse, you don't owe anyone your presence. If you're in crisis, call or text the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.
One step this week
Decide your exit plan: how long you'll stay and how you'll leave graciously.
You don't have to do this alone
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