Undeniable Truths
There is no sin - except unbelief - which God cannot forgive.
God can transform anyone willing to be transformed.
People often retreat to controlling behavior when they are afraid.
Three things keep us from moving forward and being who God intends us to be: fear, insecurities, and shame.
Fear, insecurity, and shame always lead to emotional and relational isolation.
The source of nearly all psychological and emotional problems is a lack of emotional bonding in human relationships and with God.
The most miserable people in this world are Christians who live as if they are not Christians.
We must have peace with God before we can have peace with each other.
Unbridled self-expression is just immature entitlement.
Retaliation if a form of self righteousness that kills relationships.
On this page are truths about life we have learned over the years.
This is a working list that is regularly updated.
The truth is never the problem.
You are responsible for what you say, do, and feel.
Grace and truth, over time, are required for healing, emotional bonding, and the development of authentic relationships.
The more bonded we become to someone, the more likely we are to be forgiving rather than critical of them.
Trying to change someone else never works.
In relationships, we rarely see the wounds, we usually see only the scars.
We all marry our unfinished business.
Your need to be right - winning the objectivity battle - never leads to emotional intimacy
Marriage is often not about reaching one vision which both partners happily share. Its about negotiating two different visions that both learn to live with happily.