Undeniable Truths

• There is no sin - except unbelief - which God cannot forgive.

• God can transform anyone willing to be transformed.

• People often retreat to controlling behavior when they are afraid.

• Three things keep us from moving forward and being who God intends us to be: fear, insecurities, and shame.

• The source of nearly all psychological and emotional problems is a lack of emotional bonding in human relationships.

• The most miserable people in this world are Christians who live as if they are not Christians.

On this page are truths about life we have learned over the years.

This is a working list that is regularly updated.

• The truth is never the problem.

• You are responsible for what you say, do, and feel.

• Grace and truth, over time, are required for healing, emotional bonding, and the development of authentic relationships.

• There are nine “A’s” that lead to marital problems. Most marriages can survive one of these. The presence of two makes is very difficult. Three or more, and the marriage will fail: Affairs, Abuse, Addictions, Anger, Apathy, Absoluteness, Aggression, Artificiality, and Arrogance.

• There are nine “C’s” that lead to great marriages. They are: Christianity, Character, Communication, Compatibility, Commitment, Chemisty, Compassion, Celebration, and Cooperation.