Understanding the Narcissist in Your Home: What Theodore Millon Got Right

If you're married to someone with strong narcissistic traits, you've probably asked some version of this: How can someone so charming in public be so cold at home? Why does a small comment set off a storm? Why does nothing I do ever seem to count?

The psychological literature has some answers. Understanding them won't fix your marriage, but it will stop you from making things worse.